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Sunday 27 May 2007

entitlement...

without investment, would you have the right to vote/speak @ the agm?

No.. you will in fact not be allowed into the meeting CUZ you have no vested interest in the company... why, cuz you didn't inject capital.. unless you are the appointed proxy... (but not in case illustrated below...)

in context of human relationship...
if you have never shower any care/love/concern (other than lame jokes and sharing your dreams/views...) do you have the right to inflict your frame of thoughts to others and expect that to take roots.. OR do you expect him/her to take in what your are saying...

hmm.. unlikely...

you earn the right to speak into their lives AFTER you have sowed.. else how would you earn the respect? Man, being man don't like to be talked down..

when all fails, apply the sandwich principle.. do apply it.. how else would you get the not so positive point across to one you are not that close to... The result is usually - door slammed into your face... even though the recipient is paying you lip service... para-phasing your response in a non-accusing manner help...

before you speak.. pls discern..

those who have ears, let them hear...

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